port: set shm size with ftruncate before writing

port: set shm size with ftruncate before writing

According to POSIX, the size of shared memory object must be set with
ftruncate before writing to it. This happenen to work on Linux because
the implementation simply creates files on a tmpfs but on FreeBSD it is
implemented using actual shared memory objects and as such requires the
size to be set first.

Signed-off-by: Michael Jeanson <mjeanson@efficios.com>
Signed-off-by: Mathieu Desnoyers <mathieu.desnoyers@efficios.com>
Change-Id: I048f65104d7c34142025337ec1f6777650bfd62f